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Judgement: comparison’s ugly alter-ego.

So. If you look underneath comparison, what you usually find is judgement. Or fear of judgement. It’s a natural human thing. We categorise, we judge: this is safe, this is not. This is edible, this is not. He is dangerous, he is not. It’s come in awfully handy, evolution-wise. But here’s the thing. We’ve developed, [...]

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How do you cure fear?

I know one very effective way: Action. I’ve found this over & over: fear can freeze you up, or you can use it to galvanise you into doing something about it. We are often afraid of things till we do them, then they are just things we can do. I have a long-time private client [...]

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But how?

A friend just told me that she is pregnant. It’s her second pregnancy; she lost her first last year at around the same time I did. It’s early days still and she says that every time she goes to the bathroom she checks for blood. She is so afraid it will happen again. The best [...]

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My Two Words for 2010

Happy New Year, everyOne! I did this last year, instead of setting goals in the usual way, and found it to be an incredibly powerful practice. Boy, did I open and release last year. All the old, and I mean all of it, is gone, and now, as Fiona Apple sings, I got my feet [...]

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