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Yet another yoga teacher accused of sexual and emotional misconduct. Let’s change the culture here.

I usually schedule my posts about a week in advance, but this, this needs to be talked about. Kausthub Desikachar, son of TKV Desikachar, whom I quoted in just this morning’s blog post, has been accused of sexual and emotional abuse. Go read the article over at Yoga Dork. I want to say this: people [...]

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Jenifer Parker weighs in on gurus, tradition, and lateness to yoga class…

This guest post by my friend Jenifer Parker came out of the conversation we had after my bunfight.     This, she tells me, is how she’d express her views on being a yoga teacher, and the lateness thing. And the ‘let’s respect tradition & unquestioningly respect the teacher’ thing. When speaking to “tradition” we [...]

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Being a grown-up

I first published this post more than two years ago, and it seems fitting to revisit it in the Week of Knowing Your Worth. I’ve edited it just a bit, of course . To reflect where I am at now. Still mid thirties, but a bit more more grown-up. There are definitely things that mark [...]

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10 ways yoga can spice up your sex life.

We all know yoga can spice up our sex lives right? But did you ever think of exactly how? (A side note: this is tongue-in-cheek, of course. But my boyfriend says I only get away with being so creepy because I am a woman. He has a very valid point. Read on and tell me what you [...]

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Self Love

As I mentioned yesterday, I’m guest-presenting on Kerry Belviso’s Self Love e-course this week. I feel so lucky, as she has gathered an amazing group of presenters and participants. It’s something she has a special talent for: she knows who will work well together & get along, and she makes sure to introduce people properly, [...]

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Hello, Void. Let’s be Friends.

Since I got my new emotional superpowers, some seriously weird stuff  has been happening. As if it weren’t weird enough that I can now (well, mostly) feel my feelings without ducking for cover, even when they are Big and Scary, I had a massage the other day. No, that’s not the weird bit. It was [...]

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Making Space to Feel

Making Space to Feel

I’ve been very gentle with myself this week. Soft. Quiet. Slow. I have spent a lot of time in my bed. In my pyjamas, with my poupee. I’ve been listening to Angus & Julia Stone, and Beth Orton. And Fiona Apple. Lots of Fiona. And I’ve been sleeping a lot. I’m not generally very good [...]

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OK, Universe, Time Out!

Dear Universe It’s been six months now since I said I would live this year with hope and courage. I wasn’t quite sure how to do that, but I had a few ideas. I’ve done quite a few brave and hopeful things. I submitted an article to a magazine, and got it approved for publication! [...]

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Life Lessons From a Fox

Life Lessons From a Fox

Children’s books? I am a huge fan. I love how allegorical tales can make a point so much more directly than just saying: don’t put your hand in the fire (or whatever). I guess that’s why mythologies exist in the first place: a story about how you should plan things properly or your wings will [...]

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